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E154
August 14, 2026
Menopause Sleep Reset: A Recovery Plan You Can Start Tonight with Dr. Kristen Holmes
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In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver continues her conversation with Dr. Kristen Holmes, Vice President of Performance Science at Whoop and author of the new book Aligned, moving from the science of circadian rhythm into a practical recovery plan a woman can start using tonight.

Dr. Holmes lays out a realistic strength and cardio prescription for women who only have thirty minutes a day, and explains how sleep governs the release of growth hormone and the capacity to build and preserve muscle as we age. She introduces the idea of alignment over willpower, framing consistent habits as infrastructure built around what someone actually values rather than a matter of discipline, and connects that back to the four core psychological needs, purpose, autonomy, self efficacy, and connection, that predict anxiety and sleep quality.

The conversation turns to wearables, including what to look for in a tracker, the pitfalls of obsessing over data, and simple, no cost markers like a regular menstrual cycle, resting heart rate, energy, and mood that anyone can track without one. Dr. Holmes and Dr. Haver also cover how alcohol and marijuana affect sleep architecture, when a sedative can help short term versus when it becomes a long term problem, and which supplements, like magnesium, actually have data behind them for sleep and anxiety.

The episode closes with a rapid fire round on melatonin, mouth taping, cold plunging, weighted blankets, red light therapy, chronotypes, and napping, followed by the two changes Dr. Holmes would tell a woman to make first if she wants better sleep and recovery starting tonight.

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Chapters

00:00:00 – How Small Habits Transform Your Health
00:01:00 – The Science of Better Sleep
00:03:45 – How Sleep Debt Impacts Your Brain
00:06:00 – Why Good Sleep Is a Skill
00:09:30 – Sleep, Muscle & Exercise
00:13:00 – Why Women Must Prioritize Their Health
00:18:30 – Circadian Alignment & Better Sleep
00:25:45 – Infrastructure vs. Willpower
00:30:00 – What Wearables Can Tell You
00:37:30 – Alcohol, Marijuana & Sleep
00:39:00 – Anxiety, Magnesium & Sleep
00:44:00 – Morning Light & Circadian Health
00:46:00 – Hype or Hope: Sleep Edition
00:50:30 – Naps, Caffeine & Sleep Debt
00:52:30 – Two Simple Changes for Better Sleep

About the guest

Dr. Kirsten Holmes

Dr. Kristen Holmes is a dynamic force, recognised for her work as a scientist, athlete, coach, and podcast host and her endless pursuit of understanding human potential.

In her early life, Kristen experienced familial instability, often finding solace in nature. This connection cultivated an enduring passion for exploring and improving human performance.

An exceptional scholar-athlete, Kristen earned a B.A. in Political Science from the University of Iowa, where she was a 3-time All-American, 2-time Big 10 Athlete of the Year, and a standout in field hockey and basketball.

She went on to represent the U.S. National Field Hockey Team, competing at the highest levels internationally. Her coaching career is equally impressive, including a historic tenure at Princeton University. 

Dr Holmes has a master’s degree in psychology and sports performance and is doing ongoing PhD research in psychology. She is the Global Head of Human Performance and PPL Scientist at WHOOP.

A sought-after speaker, lecturer, and host of Science & Soul—a Flight Studio podcast, Kristen’s unique ability to translate complex scientific principles into actionable, relatable advice sets her apart as a leader in her field.