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E135
May 12, 2026
Menopause Masterclass: HRT Safety, Patch Absorption, Progesterone Intolerance, and Bone Density
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In this episode of unPAUSED, Dr. Mary Claire Haver answers your most asked questions about hormone therapy, menopause symptoms, and how to advocate for yourself when your doctor doesn't have answers. She walks through who actually qualifies for HRT, what the real contraindications are versus conditions that simply require a different delivery method, and how to think about continuing estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone therapy after 60.

Dr. Haver explains the estrogen patch absorption problem, with research showing that up to 20 percent of women on transdermal therapy never reach physiologic estradiol levels regardless of dose. She breaks down SHBG, the protein that can bind your hormones and render them inactive even when your numbers look adequate on paper, and walks through what optimal estradiol levels look like for bone density and osteoporosis prevention specifically.

She tackles unscheduled bleeding on HRT, explaining that 50 percent of women will experience it when starting hormone replacement therapy and why it almost never requires a biopsy or workup in the first six months. Dr. Haver explains progesterone intolerance and the alternatives available, including vaginal administration, the Mirena IUD, and Duavee. She also walks through when to add testosterone to a menopause treatment protocol, what hypoactive sexual desire disorder means, and why monitoring testosterone levels matters. Dr. Haver covers persistent menopause symptoms despite HRT, the role of thyroid function and inflammation in overlapping presentations, and the difference between stress incontinence and urge incontinence including how each is treated.

On supplements, Dr. Haver breaks down what the evidence actually supports for women in perimenopause and menopause: vitamin D, omega-3 fatty acids, creatine, fiber, and CoQ10, with clear reasoning for each and an honest assessment of where the data is strong and where it is not. She makes the case for pelvic floor physical therapy and why she believes it should be standard care for every woman.

The episode closes with something the longevity conversation rarely addresses. Dr. Haver makes the case that unresolved trauma and a history of childhood sexual assault carry measurable cardiovascular consequences that approach those of smoking, and that any serious discussion of women's health and longevity has to include ACE scores and access to mental health support.

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00:00:00 – Welcome to Ask Me Anything #2
00:02:15 – HRT & Breast Cancer Risk, Fibroids, Polyps and Endometriosis
00:05:00 – When Hormone Therapy Is Contraindicated
00:08:05 – Is It Safe to Stay on Hormones After 60?
00:10:45 – How to Know if Your Hormone Doses Are Right
00:13:00 – Why Estradiol Patches Don’t Work the Same for Everyone
00:15:20 – Dr. Haver’s Personal Bone Health & Longevity Routine
00:22:05 – Low Hormone Levels, SHBG & Persistent Symptoms Explained
00:27:20 – Is Bleeding Normal When Starting HRT?
00:29:20 – Progesterone Intolerance & Alternative HRT Options
00:32:20 – When Women Should Consider Testosterone Therapy
00:41:00 – Bone Health, Weight Gain, Sleep Apnea & Menopause Changes
00:44:10 – Bladder Leaks, Pelvic Floor Therapy & Urinary Health
00:48:10 – Supplements That Support Menopause, Bone & Brain Health
00:57:00 – Longevity, Trauma, Lifestyle & Finding the Right Doctor
01:06:05 – Dr. Haver Explains The New Perimenopause

About the guest

Dr. Mary Claire Haver

Dr. Mary Claire Haver, MD, FACOG, MSCP, is a board-certified OB-GYN and Menopause Society Certified Practitioner. She is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The New Menopause, a book written to empower women with evidence-based menopause care, and the newly released New York Times Bestseller, The New Perimenopause: An Evidence-Based Guide to Surviving the Zone of Chaos and Feeling Like Yourself Again. She earned her medical degree from Louisiana State University Medical Center and completed her residency in Obstetrics and Gynecology at the University of Texas Medical Branch (UTMB), where she is now an Adjunct Associate Professor. 

In 2021, she founded The ‘Pause Wellness, a clinic committed to providing comprehensive menopause care. In 2023, she launched ThePauseLife.com, a trusted resource for women navigating menopause. She is also the host of the podcast unPAUSED with Dr. Mary Claire Haver, where she continues the conversation on women’s health, empowerment, and evidence-based care. 

A sought-after speaker and educator, Dr. Haver is a regular contributor to national media and has been featured in The New York Times , Forbes , The Today Show , CBS Mornings , and Oprah’s Menopause Revolution, and the 2025 TIME100 Creators List . Her social media presence has grown to more than 7 million followers, where she continues to demystify menopause with relatable, science-backed content.