In this episode of unPAUSED, recorded on location at the Aspen Ideas Festival, Dr. Mary Claire Haver sits down with Dr. Trisha Pasricha, a neurogastroenterologist at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, assistant professor of medicine at Harvard Medical School, and author of the new book You've Been Pooping All Wrong. Women in perimenopause and menopause who describe bloating, new constipation, or digestion that suddenly feels unfamiliar are often told it is stress or age. This conversation explains the biology behind gut health in midlife, starting with the estrogen receptors inside the gut's nervous system.
Dr. Pasricha explains the gut brain connection and makes the case for treating the gut as a second brain rather than plumbing. She walks through why irritable bowel syndrome affects women about twice as often as men, and why women with gut pain are so often told it is all in their heads. In her words, it's not the stress causing the symptoms, it's the symptoms causing the stress.
They also cover the less obvious causes of bloating, including pelvic floor dysfunction, accidental bowel leakage and fecal incontinence after menopause and how they are treated, the link between smartphones in the bathroom and hemorrhoids, what to expect from GLP-1s, and why women treating iron deficiency can often take oral iron every other day to ease constipation.
The conversation then turns to the four colorectal cancer red flags women should stop normalizing, which stool colors need attention, why colonoscopy is the only colon cancer screening option that prevents colorectal cancer, and why new bloating after menopause should always be evaluated.
The practical takeaways include daily fiber targets, the case for psyllium and fermented foods to support a healthy gut microbiome, why ramping up fiber slowly prevents gas and bloating, and a realistic approach to cutting ultra processed foods. The episode closes with a habit Dr. Pasricha asks of her own patients: look at your stool every day, because knowing what is normal for you is how you notice when something changes.
Guest links:
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Trisha Pasricha
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Trisha Pasricha (BIDMC Gut-Brain Institute)
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Trisha Pasricha (Instagram)
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Trisha Pasricha (TikTok)
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Gut Checker (Substack)
- Ask a Doctor (Washington Post)
Books:
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“You've Been Pooping All Wrong: How to Make Your Bowel Movements a Joy,” by Trisha Pasricha MD MPH
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“The New Perimenopause,” by Dr. Mary Claire Haver
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“The New Menopause," by Dr. Mary Claire Haver
Articles:
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Constipation and diarrhea during the menopause transition and early postmenopause: observations from the Seattle Midlife Women's Health Study (Menopause)
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Dietary fiber supplementation for fecal incontinence: a randomized clinical trial (Research in Nursing & Health)
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Increased Long-term Dietary Fiber Intake Is Associated With a Decreased Risk of Fecal Incontinence in Older Women (Gastroenterology)
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Sex-Bias in Irritable Bowel Syndrome: Linking Steroids to the Gut-Brain Axis (Frontiers in Endocrinology)
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Sexual dimorphism of gut microbiota at different pubertal status (Microbial Cell Factories)
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Menopause Is Associated with an Altered Gut Microbiome and Estrobolome, with Implications for Adverse Cardiometabolic Risk in the Hispanic Community Health Study/Study of Latinos (mSystems)
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Estrogen modulation of visceral pain (Journal of Zhejiang University–SCIENCE B)
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A cellular basis for heightened gut sensitivity in females (Science)
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Sex, gender, and pain: a review of recent clinical and experimental findings (The Journal of Pain)
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Gut enterochromaffin cells drive visceral pain and anxiety (Nature)
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Sex Differences, Menses-Related Symptoms and Menopause in Disorders of Gut-Brain Interaction (Neurogastroenterology & Motility)
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Red-flag signs and symptoms for earlier diagnosis of early-onset colorectal cancer (Journal of the National Cancer Institute)
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AGA Clinical Practice Guidelines on the Gastrointestinal Evaluation of Iron Deficiency Anemia (Gastroenterology)
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Bleeding patterns during the menopausal transition in the multi-ethnic Study of Women's Health Across the Nation (SWAN): a prospective cohort study (BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics & Gynaecology)
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Alternate day versus consecutive day oral iron supplementation in iron-depleted women: a randomized double-blind placebo-controlled study (eClinicalMedicine)
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Parenteral iron-Does it increase infection risk? (Vox Sanguinis)
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Risk of Infection Associated With Administration of Intravenous Iron: A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis (JAMA Network Open)
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A Cell-free DNA Blood-Based Test for Colorectal Cancer Screening (The New England Journal of Medicine)
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Systematic review with meta-analysis: the prevalence of anxiety and depression in patients with irritable bowel syndrome (Alimentary Pharmacology & Therapeutics)
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Assessing telephone-delivered cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) and web-delivered CBT versus treatment as usual in irritable bowel syndrome (ACTIB): a multicentre randomised trial (Gut)
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The Microbiota-Gut-Brain Axis (Physiological Reviews)
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Beaumont's contribution to gastric psychophysiology: a reappraisal (The Canadian Journal of Psychiatry)
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Causal role of the gut microbiome in certain human diseases: a narrative review (eGastroenterology)
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Global, distinctive, and personal changes in molecular and microbial profiles by specific fibers in humans (Cell Host & Microbe)
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American Gut: an Open Platform for Citizen Science Microbiome Research (mSystems)
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Gut-microbiota-targeted diets modulate human immune status (Cell)
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AGA Clinical Practice Guidelines on the Role of Probiotics in the Management of Gastrointestinal Disorders (Gastroenterology)
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Ultra-Processed Food Consumption and Long-Term Risk of Irritable Bowel Syndrome: A Large-Scale Prospective Cohort Study (Clinical Gastroenterology and Hepatology)
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Ultra-processed foods and added sugars in the US diet: evidence from a nationally representative cross-sectional study (BMJ Open)
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Association of ultra-processed food consumption with colorectal cancer risk among men and women: results from three prospective US cohort studies (The BMJ)
- Closing the women’s health gap: A $1 trillion opportunity to improve lives and economies (McKinsey Health Institute)
Other Resources:
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New Release: 2026 National Coffee Data Trends Specialty Coffee Report (Specialty Coffee Association)
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Definition & Facts for Irritable Bowel Syndrome (NIH)
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Nurses’ Health Study
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Dr. Lisa Mosconi
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Abnormal Uterine Bleeding (ACOG)
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Management of Iron Deficiency Anemia (AGA)
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Use of Cancer Screening Tests, United States, 2023 (Preventing Chronic Disease)
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Important Information about the Cologuard Products
- Shield Blood Test Approved for Colorectal Cancer Screening